Getting to a lady’s promise land is fun! Although it’s a complicated land filled with mines which that it is to be trended safely in order to correctly decipher when she is ready for sex, however, these tips should help you.
It is a very overwhelming task to know when exactly she wants to have sex with you. Although some ladies are straightforward; they just come unto you and orchestrate things that will lead to the deal, some are supreme overlord of sending mixed signals. This minute, you think she wants to get down with you, the next minute you’re not even sure about her again. It can be a very daunting task.
You know, It can be quite embarrassing for you to be the only one deceived enough to think she wants to have sex meanwhile she doesn’t. Not even harbouring such thought in her mind at all. So, the best thing you can do is ask. Ask! But, don’t cajole or push her to the wall with your words. Be a gentle man, simply ask. When she is ready for sexual play, she will engage in sexual play.
However, we know it’s equally quite hard to ask frankly if she wants to have sex or not. It isn’t ear appealing a bit, & might earn you a slap or something near. Thus, because of these complicated scenarios, we’ve compiled a number of ways she signals to you that she wants to have sex.
1) SHE WILL GIVE YOU THE APPROVAL
This is simple. She will let you know, it will be too evident. She’ll give her consent before you go down.
Women really dislike men who are forceful or very pushy. Although, manipulating someone into having sex with you is still sex, but doesn’t nearly feel good as when the person is also on board with it as much as you’re. If she wants it as much you want it, even you will have your mind blown.
Sometimes for a lady to reach orgasm, her consent is required, which makes you both enjoy the pleasure you crave for.
2) SEEKS TO KNOW YOUR SCHEDULE
Generally after sex, women mostly just want to remain naked, cuddling and having warm reminisce of the sex. Post orgasm beauty is one of the things women love the most, and which is why she wants to know what your schedule is like. Either you’re free to the time-being or busy after the deed.
When a woman is thinking about being intimate with a guy, she might start to ask questions about your schedule and how your routine does look like. She will also want to know about privacy. This is done just to see what things would look like if you guys spent the night together.
3) SHE WILL TRY TO GET CLOSER
When a girl wants to have sex, she becomes excessively comfortable with you. Notwithstanding what kind of reaction such as arms play, is happening between you both.
If sex will happen, she has to let her guards down, and maybe become flirtier with you. Thus, the closeness will start to build up. She will also become more open about sex discussion around you, and ask you about your feelings towards the subject. Especially when you both are alone.
4) SEX CHATTING
This is the act of talking/chatting using sexually explicit messages and photos via various kinds of messaging platforms.
If a girl comfortably exchanges such messages with you, then it may probably mean she is ready to take the next step. This act is no doubt, a next level stuff for relationships heading towards sex.
Perhaps she starts talking to you about what her sexual preferences are, and conversation can lead to erotic talk and chats, don’t take it as joke. You don’t know if that’s her own way of knowing what you like in bed.
5) SHE WILL INVITE YOU INTO HER APARTMENT
The best way to know is when she tells you herself, she allows you come into her apartment or she comes to yours and gives you the good news.
Although, this isn’t an express invitation that she wants to sleep with you, but it’s along that way. Just one turn down the road. It may mean, she trusts you enough to be with you alone but if she initiates the sexual moves, then that’s the definite approval you need!