Are you tired of switching proposed life partner? – switching from yin to yan, from jack to Jill? This post is thus, for you!
Leading an happy married life is one of the necessities of life. But how then can you perfectly select the perfect partner together with whom you’ll achieve this feat? This is one of the questions painted on lips of searching singles.
However, there are many factors that deciphers what kind of partner to choose. But, the most important factor is to choose who pleases you and who you love.
1) BE CONSCIOUS OF YOUR PAST
The first thing to check through while a life partner is your past. What actually went wrong in the choices you’ve made earlier before now. Was it as a result of instability caused by childhood or maybe the because of our extreme love for romantic and sexual escapades, which can only be provided by the so-called players. You have to check now, so you wouldn’t make the sane mistake once again.
Most especially, are you even prepared & ready for a relationship at present. Are you fit to gamble into it once again, or probably this is your first time of getting into an intimate relationship, are you prepared?
2) PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR PROPOSED PARTNER’S PAST
You might want to wave this off – calking it unnecessary. But I’m damn serious it’s very important.
This guy/girl you want to start dating now, do you know his/her past? Do you know the emotional instabilities he/she has been through? Are you aware of his/her family background?
It’s really important you know such person’s past. Although this might look tedious & impossible, as some people don’t like going back or telling tales of their past – maybe because it haunts them, but I tell you, there are more living and careful ways you could go by it. Its better to do that know than to get hurt in the future.
3) FIND SOMEONE WITH WHOM YOU CONNECT WITH EASILY
This is also equally important when choosing a life partner. It is advisable to choose with whom conversations are always interesting and promising to continue. Someone with whom you feel secure discussing your issues with. Someone who has listening ears and holding arms. Someone who also equally feels Free to you.
By this, you will enjoy doing things together without getting tired & bored of each other.
4) TRUST & RESPECT
Do you trust this new guy/lady? Do you equally respect him/her and vice versa?
If your answer is a convincing yes, then you might be good to go for the relationship.
You obviously wouldn’t spend your life with someone who has no respect for your personality, nor your life aspirations nor for you. Definitely not! So, choose someone who will accept you for who you are, and respect your decisions.
Also, in this world we find ourselves in, it is extremely important to choose someone you can trust. Your marriage would definitely not thread the path of happiness if you do not trust your partner.
5) DOES HE/SHE MEET YOUR STANDARDS?
Sincerely, it isn’t pride. It’s okay to have standards.
When choosing life partners, it is important to know if such person meets your slated standards. Either relating to him/her or such person’s family.
Although it is usually advisable to marry someone who doesn’t belong to your strata, it still has to be closely aligned to yours as well.
This makes understanding grow better between you two, and also foster the relationship more.
Nothing more to say again than keep loving. But love with you hearts while your brain is still functioning… Good luck!