One thing I must say is that it’s not easy to be a lady, but not withstanding that, some ladies stoop so low which now seems like there is nothing they can offer apart from sex, some behave so cheaply that they so depend on men for survival, you have allowed men to see you as sex tool.
some ladies would go to club and drink themselves to stupor. Nowadays, you can even differentiate sex-worker ( olosho) or ashawo from normal responsible girl. But let me ask a questions, ladies where is your pride? gone? then bring it back!.
Why must you go into relationship because you need money. You are so blinded with what you get from him , that you didn’t realize he is a cheat, a woman beater, you choose to be his punching bag because you have no other options.
Well, let me remind you, no man would beat you up if you don’t depend on him, if you have a life of your own, so go out there , learn hand work, gain knowledge, improve your self , and who says he must be the one buying clothes, shoes etc, for you , when you can actually buy a car of your own , build a house and take care of your self.
Another thing that baffles me is ladies having sex with married men, hmm, let me tell you something , you have no honour, no dignity , no respect for womanhood, how do you intend to be happy with your own man, when you steal other persons joy.
Am trying to remember who said “karma is a bitch” . Truly, what’s goes around must surely come around. Please be careful what you do with your life. It is almost believed that all men sleep around, men like chasing ladies that attract them, when you dress sexy , what do you expect ? I believe if the number of decently dressed ladies increase, then we could count more descent men. I wonder why you complain that men won’t let you rest, but you are always dressed on mini skirt, mini gown, most times no undies.
So when you invite them , be ready to welcome them.
I will list here some of the things you need to know as a lady.
1. Keeping so much male friends, chatting and texting at all time with them , could affect you when you want to settle down.
3. Be fulfilled as a single lady, Don’t wait for a man before you start living.
4. Try to reduce intake alcohol. It’s not good for you.
5. Eat healthy and involve in regular exercise, it helps to keep you fit.
6. Dress properly, People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you. Impression matters a lot.
7. Never use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he will definitely leave you after the sex.
8. Don’t marry for the money.
9. Improve yourself , get a career, don’t always depend on a man, you will gain more respect from men.
10. It doesn’t matter if you are not as beautiful as a model, there is nothing more charming than being bold and secure lady.
Finally you should remember that Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised, Proverb 31:30.