It’s a normal and seemingly common trend for people in a relationship to have less time for their friends. This is the way it is, and will happen to you at some point in time. Actually, it’s not always the fault of such person in love, nor you the friend who’s feeling neglected. However, there are a number of things to do if you don’t like your friend’s girlfriend. A lot.
Although, the common excuse friends give is that such girl is rude or related issues. It doesn’t matter that you believe she’s rude: there is relatively nothing for you to do. It doesn’t just matter.
You can try to get him to go out to dinner or meet at some place. But if that doesn’t work then you can go to his home at a time you are sure he’ll be there. You might tell him you really miss hanging out with him and is there a time when you can get together. It will likely be he will be in agreement but time comes and he backs out. It is super annoying for friends, and I’d suggest just leaving him be for the most part. Check in on him once in a while and let him know you’re still around.
As I said earlier on, there are various reasons attached with you not liking your friend’s girlfriend. However, if the reason is negative, or for bad reasons, then again there isn’t much you can do. This is because people really don’t like to hear anything negative about the one their in love with. I know you don’t like his girlfriend but maybe invite them together as a couple to dinner or to a movie or something that you know he enjoys doing. This will give you a clear and ample chance to get to know the girlfriend better. You might just have made assumptions, thus misjudging her.
Furthermore, if after several chats, and things seems not to head towards the right path still, you could just just distance myself for a bit, give him time to figure out how to manage his relationship with her and with you and his other friends.
Although this step is really hard and might look impossible at the start. But, you just need to be careful so you don’t lose the friendship. Because people can take things the wrong way or take them badly when not meant that way at all, especially those in relationships.
Things to do when you don’t like your friend’s girlfriend are quite numerous and diverse. However, you need to be extra careful and cautious, so as not to trow your hard earned cord of friendship into the lion’s den. Moreover, one of the most important things to do if you don’t like your Friend’s girlfriend, is to check yourself. You might actually be the problem there afterall. maybe, maybe not tho.
Finally, as a goodbye note to this post, I sincerely hope everything works out good and well for you,the rests of his friends, for him, and for the girlfriend under study. I hope